15. Touch, glide, massage

Applying the right level of pressure can, within a few seconds, transform a simple caress into something far more erotic.

Pressure is one of the essential variables during masturbation because it can, in a matter of seconds, turn a gentle caress into something far more erotic.

We all have different levels of sensitivity. And our individual sensitivity can vary from one day to the next and from one touch to the next.

Bear in mind that there are 3 main variations of pressure. This exercise may seem very simple, but I would like to invite you to try them all, one after the other.

Touch

Start with very light pressure. The tip of your finger should slide over the skin of your vulva without moving it, just as if you're brushing against it. If you don't feel lubricated yet, feel free to add a little water-based lubricant.

When to use it? When you first begin to touch yourself and / or just after an orgasm.

Use this very light touch while the clitoris is 'resting', that is to say, when you first begin to touch yourself, or just after an orgasm. There’s no need to go any harder at this point!

Glide

To up the intensity, apply a little more pressure so that the pad of your finger glides, and your skin moves with it. You'll notice that...