Introduction

History of Shibari

What is shibari? In general, shibari is a Japanese art of rope. Although often associated with fetish practitioners, shibari is a learned skill that can be used for mental stimulation and relaxation, both by the roper (usually called a rigger) and the person being tied up (the model or ‘bunny’). So, basically, it’s tying somebody or something up in a beautiful way, taking time and conscious effort to give them certain sensations. It is not always sexual, although one should not forget that it can be; shibari can be an expression of very strong feelings. From the beginning, I want you to know that shibari is a sensual and emotional practice. Yes, knots have to be learned, but as soon as you know the very basics, if you can bind with care and convey emotions - you are on the right path. In Japan, rope has played a significant cultural role for thousands of years. In Japanese tradition, there still are a million ways and occasions to tie a rope beautifully. Where does shibari come from? Japanese culture has always look to knots and tying within their daily lives, for the fastening of their kimonos and clothes, or for tying ropes within shrines, so it is only natural that Japanese culture would use rope for tying. It's also thought that in ancient times, Japan lacked iron so were unable to make handcuffs like their Western or Chinese counterparts. Instead, the Doushin (peace officers) of Edo period, which lasted from 1603 to 1868, developed more than 150 schools of hojojutsu. People from different social standings were tied using different methods. Also, the various regions within the country have their own ways of tying in order to distinguish their jurisdiction - Nawakiri 21.

Storing your ropes

Type of ropes

Introduction

Single column tie

Double column tie

Rope chain

Ladder tie

Friction & tension

x Friction

Frictions "Wrap"

Frictions "Nodome"

Frictions "V/triangle"

Frictions "L half hitch"

Closing ties

Flat knots & Karada

Basket tie

Futumomo

Storing your rope

Untying yourself

Frictions exercices

Introduction

Safety

Talking to your partner about Shibari

Untying a person

“Aftercare” as a term is usually used by the BDSM world, but it is very relatable to shibari. There is a need to spend some time after the tying with your model to support them and ensure they feel good. The process of tying is very draining for models, and also can take them to a different state. Aftercare helps to get the energy flowing and allows your model to come back to reality slowly and easily. When untying, you need to keep the rope tense and make it carefully slide on the body, so models don’t feel like you suddenly abandoned them. A lot of people give a hug to their model at the end of a session, but if your model doesn’t want cuddles - this is okay too. In this case, you can just have a little chat about the session. Ask them what they felt and make sure the model leaves in a good mood.

Moving your partner

Big cuffs

Bunny ears

Simple gote

Lotus tie

Ebi tie

Ladder tie

Connect ropes

Simple rope play

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